שרוכים ” serochim” Shoelaces

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So, my white, ex- OR shoes served me very well during these past five weeks!!

They have tromped on the sands and rocks of deserts, the stone streets of Jerusalem, the wooden boardwalk of Tel Aviv, along the shores of Kinneret and danced on a variety of floors…..wooden gym floors 🙂 and tile over cement 😬

Being a possessor of a “hallux valgus rigidus” aka, a bunion, means I need to wear a runner with a stiff sole: New Balance 623, and they only come in black and white. If I wear them, i can walk for hours, dance for hours, climb mountains and am still smiling 😎

If I do not wear them, i become a miserable possessor of a “hallux valgus rigidus excruciatingus” ( as Gary calls it!!!) Some of my middle aged women readers may be able to relate!  So, I wear them.

During my first week here alone, I noticed with some envy and longing, other women’s running shoes….pretty coloured shoes with coloured laces!!

Colour makes me happy, so I thought of a simple way to dress up my painfully white shoes, for an extra happy experience here in Israel!🌈

Coloured laces, of course!!

So began my search….the first place I was exposed to shops seriously was our brief night in Eilat before we went into Jordan.

I had practiced my Hebrew phrase for ” I want to buy…” or ” I need to buy…”, and the shop servers taught me ” serochim” ( shoelaces), not easy to pronounce, but i got closer and closer to the correct version shop by shop 🙂

But, every shop said: “ain serochim”. “No laces”….VERY disappointing….

In the Jordan desert, however, my white laces became a very pale pink sand colour, and i thought, if i must, i can live with that….things would be ok….

A few days later, we joined our tour group, and had lunch that day at Har El mall, outside of Jerusalem. I asked Arin, our local tour organizer and fellow dancer, about coloured laces.

My luck began to change.

“Of course i can find you some!” Arin said. However the shop she took me to was closed that day 😦

The next day, while travelling on the tour bus, Naomi, our leader, called out:”is there someone here who ordered coloured shoelaces for her grandchildren??”

From near the back of the bus, I stood up and waved….”it’s me, but not for grandchildren ( we havent experienced that blessing yet!)…they’re for me!”

Naomi said…Arin found some and got you 4 pairs…she’ll bring them tomorrow!

Happy ending…and the hot orange laces still make me happy 🙂

And I have some pretty spares ( Gary declined my offer of a pair)….let me know if you’d like a pair to dress up your shoes 🙂

I’m happy to share some hard-earned serochim from Israel 🙂

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Others we were privileged to meet, and want to introduce to our readers….

IMG_3387Salim Munayer is director of Musalaha; the office is based in Talpiyot, Jerusalem.

Musalaha is a non-profit organization that promotes and facilitates reconciliation between Israelis and Palestinians from diverse ethnic and religious backgrounds, based on the life and teaching of Jesus.

Those involved in this ministry have their work cut out for them….I intentionally met with Salim in 2013 as I was researching reconciliation movements in the Israeli- Palestinian context.

This time Gary could also meet, and Salim gave us an update. With general increasing polarization in this region, the work is uphill.

Being personally aware of the intensity, sadly, of the polarization even within the Christian churches on the Israel/ Palestine issue, I recognize that Salim is a brave man to continue this work, and i understand that he does it in the strength of the LORD.

Salim expressed appreciation for the encouragement our visit gave him. Check out their website to see the broad spectrum of people groups they are involved with….and some amazing almost unbelievable stories of reconciliation!!

http://www.musalaha.org/

 

IMG_4874.JPGDalia Landau is the co- founder and Director of  Open House in Ramle, a peace education centre in Ramle, Israel. We were privileged to meet with her for dinner in her home town, Ein Kerem, Jerusalem. We spent 4 hours together….and basically were asked to leave as the restaurant was closing at midnight….otherwise we may still be there together 🙂

I am adding an excerpt from the paper I wrote after meeting Dalia in 2013 and visiting Open House in Ramle:

“Open House Center for Jewish-Arab Coexistence
Bashir Al-Kharyi was born in al-Ramla in 1942. In July 1948, his family was forcibly evacuated from their home by the Israeli army, who were waging a war of survival following the Arab world’s rejection of the 1947 U.N. partition plan and the existence of a Jewish state. The Al-Kharyi family fled to Ramallah.
Dalia Eshkanazi was born in Sofia, Bulgaria in 1948 and came to Israel as a baby with her parents, as they left war-ravaged Bulgaria for a better life. The Eshkanazi family bought a house in Ramle – the empty one belonging to Bashir’s family.
After the 1967 Six Day War, Bashir came from the Ramallah area to visit his former home. Dalia, then age nineteen, opened the gate and invited him and his cousins to enter the home. Their families began a relationship which continues today.
When Dalia inherited the house from her parents in 1985, the two families decided to make it a peace education centre. In 1991, The Open House Centre in Ramle, Israel was founded by Dalia and Yehezkel Landau with support from Bashir Al-Kharyi and family. “The house remains the home of two families, symbolizing Israel/Palestine as the homeland of two nations.”
The Open House runs affirmative action programmes for Arab children and their families through an Arabic pre-school, as well as joint reconciliation groups, summer peace camps and inclusive activities for both Jewish and Arab Israelis, children, youth and women. Yehezkel Landau, an observant Jew, interprets the ministry at Open House theologically:
Recalling the two Divine attributes that are the criteria for consecrated living in God’s Holy Land (Genesis 18:19), I would say that the first program area, which addresses the discrimination experienced by the local Arab community, reflects our commitment to mishpat, justice; while our mixed activities are meant to keep hearts open and caring, as a practical model of tzedakah, compassion.

Gary and I visited Open House in Ramle, and were so encouraged to see a happy group of preschool age Arab Israeli children (Christians and Muslims), playing in the yard, along with some parents and the teachers. One Palestinian Christian woman who worked there shared with us the intensity of reconciliation work: “at times, my whole life feels conflicted .” Yet, later that day, when she returned from a multi-faith meeting with two other women leaders, she glowed with enthusiasm: “we are starting a new women’s reconciliation group in two months!”
I was also very blessed to be able to meet with Dalia Eshkanazi Landau in Jerusalem; we spent an evening together, during which we shared our personal faith journeys with one another, and also wondered if we may be distant cousins! ( my mother’s maiden name was Askanazy). My husband, Gary, and I, spent a Shabbat celebration and dinner in her home, along with their long-standing friends, two Grandchamp Sisters, Protestant nuns (who live by the rule of Taize), who seek to bless the Holy Land by their physical presence and through prayer.”

For more information on Dalia’s interesting work and its ongoing story, please check out their website:

http://www.friendsofopenhouse.co.il

 

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Bernie Dichek is a good friend of a friend of mine in Vancouver, and during my visit to Israel in 2013, he kindly arranged for me ( and then Gary also) to stay in his daughter’s apartment near the beach, and showed me around south Tel Aviv, his work with Ethiopian and Eritrean refugees and introduced me to some of his film and literary work as well as his personal views.

“Canadian born and bred Bernard Dichek writes about film, social issues, business and international development. He currently is making a documentary about Israeli development projects in Africa. A previous film, ‘The Kalusz I Thought I Knew’, about his father’s hometown in Galicia has been shown at film festivals around the world.”

He is an author for the Jerusalem Report: check out his website.

http://www.jpost.com/Author/Bernard-Dichek

I should also mention that a group that Bernie works with in South Tel Aliv was nominated for the 2018 Nobel Peace Prize!

https://www.haaretz.com/israel-news/.premium-israeli-group-formed-to-shelter-asylum-seekers-among-nobel-peace-prize-contenders-1.6530233

It was good to catch up with Bernie and hear his perspective as an artist and writer. Similarly to others we met with, he mentioned the situation here was becoming more polarized. Again, he expressed gratefulness for our continuing interest in the incredibly difficult and seeming intractable conflicted situation in this part of the world.

It seems people here appreciate being remembered by us from afar, and draw encouragement, even from brief visits like this, as they continue to live and work in this land in their chosen vocations!

 

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Dalia Landau kindly arranged for us to meet with Yossi Kelin Halevi. He “is a senior fellow at the Shalom Hartman Institute in Jerusalem. Together with Imam Abdullah Antepli of Duke University, he co-directs the Institute’s Muslim Leadership Initiative.” Yossi is a journalist and writes and speaks regularly in Israel and USA. He also heads the Board of Open House Ramle. See his website for more info and links to his current newspaper articles.

http://www.yossikleinhalevi.com/

…and he graciously gave us 1 1/2 hours out of his busy schedule to share his heart and hopes for the future in the increasingly polarized situation here. We met over a light supper in a cafe in the German Colony. Dalia had (unknown to me!!) passed on an article i wrote for a Vancouver paper in 2015, and he gave me his honest feedback, explaining where i was naive ( and commenting to Gary privately that “Sabeel is poison”).  Yossi did express that he appreciated what were new insights for him in what i had highlighted concerning movements in the Protestant church community who are trying to work for reconciliation with the other side, specifically some in the Jewish Messianic community. Wow, what an honour to have time with Yossi, and to share our hopes and dreams, some of our personal stories and faith journeys.

I was so inspired by his book, At the Entrance to the Garden of Eden, which I happened to read in 2012 at the start of my one year reading preparation for my 2013 sponsored trip here. And Gary and I both read Like Dreamers: The Story of the Israeli Paratroopers Who Reunited Jerusalem and Divided a Nation. We had hoped to meet him in 2013 but at that time he was out of the country.

His most recent publication for New York Times:

 

Scenes from Jerusalem

After our Dance with Israel tour ended Sunday morning, we trained up to Jerusalem and spent 3 nights at the Lutheran Guest House, a short distance into the Arab Shuk (market) in the Old City.  Our porch overlooked the Temple Mount with the golden Dome of the Rock shining in the sun by day, and lit by lights at night. The call to prayer woke us in the early mornings and brought back memories of our years in  Malaysia.

 

We visited the Hadassah Hospital with the renowned Chagall windows depicting the 12 tribes of Israel. Gorgeous colours!

We met with local friends and acquaintances, some of whom are also relatives of Vancouver dancing friends; they picked awesome places to meet and eat and showed us around; very special times, thank you 🙂

 

Dancing with Israel 😊

 

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With Miri Bitton in Kiryat Shmonei

 

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With Elad Shtamer in Ra’anana

 

Wow!! In the last 2 weeks we have danced 8 nights in different venues in Israel, joining local folkdance groups…from Beer Sheva in the south to Kiryat Shmonei in the north, twice in Jerusalem, in college and university gyms in Tel Aviv and in Kibbutz halls, and last night ( the final night of our tour) outside in a park in Herzeliya.

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So much fun; locals were welcoming; the choreographers running the sessions kindly chose dances so that all dancers in our tour group ( we are a range of abilities) could join in at least some of the dances. Gary and I even feel we improved a bit 🙂

Nevermind the sore knees, neck and feet and lack of sleep….the beautiful music and dances, the friendships forming in our tour group and the connections with local Israeli dancers contributed to our endorphins running at high levels to keep us going….what an amazing time!!!

 

A quiet evening in Haifa after two days exploring northern Israel

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The days have been very full and extremely interesting. We visited the Mount of Beatitudes on shore of northern Sea of Galilee, Tel Dan and the Golan Heights, ( from where we could see into both Lebanon and Syria), up in the “finger” of Israel. We stayed overnight in two Kibbutzim and danced in the area both nights. The map shows the area we covered.

Much more to tell, but time hasn’t permitted….i have a couple of hopefully informative and creative posts percolating….so do stay tuned!!

Meanwhile, Gary and i took a break from dancing tonight and enjoyed some quiet time by the Mediterranean Sea in Haifa, watching local families fish, and in a bubble bath jacuzzi in our Colony Hotel room!! Good to allow the sore parts of our bodies ( from intensive nightly dancing!!) have an opportunity to settle and heal – prevention is better than cure 🙂

Haifa is Israel’s main port city on a huge bay. One of the famous sites is the Bahai gardens and temple, the world centre of the Bahai faith. The photo below is the gardens lit at night – taken from just outside our hotel.

Remembering the deaths, seeing life! Am Israel chai-the people of Israel live!

When Gary and I visited Yad Vashem, the Holocaust Memorial, in 2013, we found my maternal grandfather’s name, Simon Aszkanazy, in the Hall of Names, but he had no photo or Page of Testimony. Today, I delivered a photo of him and a completed page of testimony. I am also writing a brief life synopsis of Simon, which I will forward electronically to the website.

 

From Yad Vashem, we took a bus ride and then a walk through Machaneh Yehuda, a busy Jewish market…filled with rushed shoppers preparing for the Sabbath to begin, and with young people enjoying a cold drink with friends after school or work done.

A feast of colour, variety, faces young and old, locals and visitors ( many young people on Birthright tours). Shop keepers proud of their produce and wares….our family and friends can look forward to Halvah ( a sesame candy) on our return! Gary was excited about the Turkish Delight and me, the dates 🙂

After a sombre morning remembering the enormous tragedy of millions of deaths, Machaneh Yehuda speaks of life continuing on and being lived to the full by a people who do not take the gift of life for granted! Am Israel Chai!!

First afternoon/ eve in Jerusalem

We returned our rental car to Avis, with over 1000 added  kilometers on it….thankful for Gary’s safe driving, our GPS and for our desert sojourning.

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We met up with our “Dance with Israel” tour group at Ben Gurion Airport and headed by bus up to Jerusalem! So fun to be together with our dancing friends from Vancouver!!

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Our first stop in Jerusalem was on the Mount of Olives, looking out across the graves to the City of Gold with the limestone (Jerusalem stone) walls and the Dome of the Rock in the distance.

We walked past the church commemorating where Jesus sat and wept over Jerusalem as He entered several days before His death.

We walked in the Garden of Gethsemane where there are olives trees, some of them 2000 years old ( and pretty hollyhocks and bougainvillia) and a church. The garden is where Jesus prayed intensely, sweating blood, asking that God might spare him from the death he was facing, yet eventually surrendering to his Father’s plan, for the sake of the world.

After a brief rest at the hotel, a group of us headed out for 3 hours of Israeli folkdancing 🙂

Simple and profound

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I packed simply for this journey: one pairs of ear-rings which go with anything I wear, click close securely and travel well…can even be worn while sleeping (thankyou Sandra, a chersihed gift received many years ago); one necklace…my birthday gift this year from its designer and creator, (thankyou Kathy – check out her fb site- “Rock/Art from Princeton, BC @urthkat7”); i love the bird’s silver and turquoise beauty, and its symbolism for me – the Holy Spirit, and of course, peace.

I bought 2 pairs of “lightly worn” cotton shorts for a great price at Second Chance shop,in Lynden ( thankyou Elsie). Comfy, cool and dry so quickly in this dry heat; my desert shorts 🙂

I brought along one small book: The Lord and His Prayer by NT Wright (which i read several years ago) and have already read once here on my own; now Gary and I taking turns reading it outloud to each other.

Since i began to follow Jesus as a child of 10 years old, (almost 50 years ago!), I have been learning to pray; learning to communicate with God in listening and speaking is lifelong, like any relationship.

Jesus gave his followers this prayer when they asked him, “Lord, teach us to pray!” Luke 11:1 and Matthew 6:9.

The first phrase is “Our Father in heaven”.

In light of the daily world news, our own lives, and our personal journey with friends and family on the, more often than not, challenging road of life, and also, as part of this first blog initiative in which I share my/ our trip experiences, I include a couple of pages of NT Wright’s thoughts on Our Father in heaven.

As I start my 60th year of life, I want to pray more faithfully and live more effectively in this world as a child of God.

Simple and profound.